Days late and more than a dollar short....

First the picture, we were on a cruise and I was trying to take a more romantic and some what artistic photo...I think it turned out nice but Brandi thinks it makes her ass look too big. It reminds me a bit of some of the old master's paintings...but I might be fooling myself.

On to the questions.

1. How do you differentiate between love and lust? I think when you are younger lust is what you feel and it might turn into love. Lust is more sexual/sensual...not much in the way of friendship or even respect. I think love of course can have sexual aspects and be sensual but love does not need those aspects. At least I hope those aspects are lacking when it comes to loving your kids and your pets eh?

2. You are happily married, engaged, or committed in a relationship, yet you have a hot sexy dream about someone you have always wanted to do it with. Have you cheated at least in your mind? No

3. Do you trust your significant other? Yes...of course in the important things but to find her way across town...that might stretch my "trust".

4. How important is your Husband or Wife wearing their Wedding bands? Is it important to you and why? It isn't all that important to me but it is to her, I didn't wear mine for years and it bothered her. She wears her ring and band pretty much all the time...even on dates with lovers.

5. Do you feel that flirting is OK if you are taken? Yes, flirting keeps you in practice and I think it makes you feel better about yourself and sexier.

Bonus (as in optional):If you were 100% guaranteed not to get caught having a one night stand with someone else, would you? Yes, but of course we have an open marriage as in we are swingers/hotwife with some cuckolding games worked in.

Yardwork and other boring stuff.

Ah, the pictures...we used to live outside of Madera, all one acre or more parcels. Our property and our neighbors was two acres or more. When we first built our house we had no neighbors behind us, and there still are no neighbors back there, that land is owned by a water district and will not be built on. We had no neighbors for four lots to the east, much more than for to the west and a few empty lots to the north. Our two closest neighbors to the west, four lots away told Brandi that they had bought binoculars. Why did they do that?

Simple. My wife did yard work. She started by doing it in shorts or cut-offs and a t-shirt. Then a swimsuit top and cut-offs, then no top and at last naked. The two old goats, both married the closest one four empty lots away would keep an eye or two her. When she was wearing shorts or a pair of cut-offs and a top (including a few mesh tops she had) they would stop by for iced tea or coffee and at times would help her with projects. If she was topless or naked they would not stop by...I assume just drag out the binoculars and enjoy the view while hoping not to get caught by their own wives.

Killing a little time today, working on putting a sink in the other bathroom, not the master suite one. Have a few other projects going but wanted to look around the net while Brandi was still at work. Also will work on the story about first time we had a mfm.

Looking through old TMI questions, might answer the more interesting ones.

1. Have you ever attended a group masturbation party? Yes Same-sex or mixed? Same sex

2. When masturbating, as you reach orgasm, do you continue to stimulate yourself without interruption, or do you stop and apply pressure until your spasms subside? Most of the time I keep stimulating myself. Or? Most of the time I don't orgasm, I like to bring myself to the edge and keep myself there and then back off.

3. Have you ever videoed yourself while masturbating (solo)? Yes Where are they now? No idea.

4. Have you ever look at porn online? Yes Have you ever posted at porn online? Yes

5. Do you send/receive dirty email jokes and pictures? Yes


Bonus: Have you ever told someone they were good in bed when they weren't? Yes, a few one night stands. Felt I had no reason to hurt their feelings.

Stolen stuff.....

Yes and No ONLY

I found this on Hubmans Blog and decided to steal it.

Actually I found it at Pastures so I am stealing it from a self-admitted thief....Just kidding.

1. You can ONLY answer Yes or No.
2. You are NOT ALLOWED to explain ANYTHING unless someone messages or comments you and asks.

Now, here’s what you’re supposed to do. . . Copy and paste this into your notes, delete my answers, and type in your answers

Been arrested? No
Kissed someone you didn’t like? YES
Slept in until 5 PM? Yes
Ran a red light? YES
Been suspended from school? No
Experienced love at first sight? Yes
Totaled your car in an accident? yes
Been fired from a job? Yes
Fired somebody? YES
Sang karaoke? No
Pointed a gun at someone? Yes
Done something you told yourself you wouldn’t? YES
Caught a snowflake on your tongue? YES
Kissed in the rain? YES
Had a close brush with death (your own)? Yes
Seen someone die? YES
Played spin-the-bottle? YES
Smoked a cigar? Yes
Sat on a rooftop? YES
Smuggled something into another country? Yes
Been pushed into a pool with all your clothes on? Yes
Broken a bone? Yes
Skipped school? YES
Eaten a bug? YES
Sleepwalked? No
Walked a moonlit beach? YES
Rode a motorcycle? YES
Dumped someone? YES
Lied to avoid a ticket? YES
Ridden in a helicopter? YES
Shaved your head? No
Made your boyfriend/girlfriend cry? YES
Eaten snake? Yes
Marched/Protested? Yes
Had Mexican jumping beans for pets? Yes
Puked on amusement ride? No
Seriously & intentionally boycotted something? Yes
Been in a band? Yes
Been on TV? no
Shot a gun? YES
Skinny-dipped? yes
Gave someone stitches? Yes
Ridden a surfboard? No
Drank straight from a liquor bottle? YES
Had surgery? YES
Streaked? Yes
Taken by ambulance to hospital? Yes
Passed out when not drinking? Yes
Peed on a bush? Yes
Donated Blood? YES
Grabbed electric fence? YES
Eaten alligator meat? Yes
Killed an animal when not hunting? YES
Peed your pants in public? No
Snuck into a movie without paying? Yes
Written graffiti? Yes
Still love someone you shouldn’t? YES
Been in handcuffs? Yes

Believe in love? YES
Sleep on a certain side of the bed? YES

Not a very exciting life eh?

Brandi's answers might be more interesting and more fun to find out more about.

Kate and seeing another man's hand's in your wife's thong.

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It is still too "f"ing hot! Not Portland weather!

It has been above 90 F the past days, almost a week now and it was up to 95 F today and it has hit over 100 F according to our thermometer...just too darn hot for me any more. Still getting headaches and back pain and to be honest the warm weather tends to make both Brandi and I a bit cranky and not at all sexy feeling. Long days for her has her tired but she says still interested in going further with some of the recent guys.

Over at http://cuckold-husband-bdenied.blogspot.com/ he tells of a very intense cuckold moment for him, I think one of his early cuckold moments, well worth reading if you don't already follow his blog. I've got stuff to do down in the shop and in the house but I'm not quite up to doing much in this heat so first go over and read his recent postings then I'll list a few of my cuckold moments and let's see if there is any interest in hearing more about any of them.

Back in the Kate days:

Kate dating with my permission including up to giving blow jobs.

Kate dating without my permission, fucking other guys...bugging me to come down and visit and then going out with another guy.

Kate partying after work, group sex, not enough details from her. Very cuckold.

Kate's summer's away including living with a guy and sex with him and other, see the first very long post.

My wife Brandi:

First time with anther man (Henry), a threesome, didn't feel cuckolded. It was in our bed soo that was one taboo done with from the begining.

First time with Henry and Brandi kissing, affection and public affection, Henry and my wife becoming more than fuck buddies, friends and then lovers.

First time with Henry without me being there...on our bed, I was not home and I did feel a bit like a cuckold.

Brandi visiting me in Reno (crash pad) and fucking the "landlord" while I was at work after promising me that she wouldn't fuck other men unless I was there. First time Brandi was with another man without me being there! Did feel a bit cuckolded, actually more than a bit. I was shocked and hurt and very shortly very aroused.

Brandi meeting Dr. Steve for coffee and heading off to his room...got to his room in less than thirty minutes after they first met...did feel a bit cucked as she had said that she wouldn't do anything their first meeting and did not call until she was on her way home.

Brandi meeting Dr. Steve again and again. More cuckold feelings.

Brandi meeting a new guy for lunch and going to his house and fuckiing...not much in the way of cuckold feelings.

Brandi and L...intense cuckold feelings. First overnight with a lover.

Brandi and John, very hot sex between the two of them and a rapid friendship. She enjoyed a bit rougher sex with John than we have...a bit of cuckold feelings.

Brandi and her girlfriend and her girlfriend's lover...him calling me from bed telling me how good my wife was at sucking his cock...intense cuckold feelings and knowing her girlfriend knows what turns me on. Her girlfriend enjoyed pushing Brandi's limits and pushing me a bit as well, getting Brandi to see her lovers, letting Brandi use her house to meet guys. She would assure my wife that I really wanted her to date men, enjoy them bareback, spend the night with them and to eat her come filled pussy. I think Sherri knew I was a cuckold before I knew it. She enjoyed pushing my wife into cuckold things and enjoyed my reactions to it. Sherri knowing that my wife slept around was a major step for us.

Brandi celebrating her birthday with four or five men while I was on a trip, Sherri helped set it up.

Coming home from a trip and seeing four thongs sealed up in plastic bags...wet from Brandi and some of her lovers.

I am not sure at what point I decided to accept and enjoy those cuckold feelings...to love seeing my wife out in public with her lover and lots of affection between them. To feel a bit of shame (and enjoy that shame) but not enough to stop me as my wife's lover watches as my wife tells me to eat her pussy, the pussy he had just filled with sperm. To feel how wet and open my wife's pussy is after her lover, how slick she feels as I slide into her, to enjoy knowing that she is wet and slippery, sloppy from her lover or lovers. To have my wife tell me that Sid sent home a little treat for me to enjoy and I could nibble on her some but I'd have to wait, her pussy was too sore from her lover for her to let me slife my cock into her and want to feel my cock in her soo much but at the same time I'll enjoy the wait and be a bit jealous of her lover. To hear my wife comment on how much she enjoyed the love making with her lover and how much she enjoyed his cock and how delightful it was for her when he came in her...how she enjoyed feeling her lover filling her with his big loads of come. I've seen her with some of her lovers and it is obvious how much she enjoys their cocks and come and how much she enjoys them as people and as lovers. But the sight of my naked wife in bed with her lover and them kissing and cuddling while she fondles his cock after he has come in her, after seeing her have several orgasms from his touch, his tounge and his cock...but to see her not be able to leave his cock alone...wow, it makes me feel very much like a cuckold and to know that she is aware that I am watching but in some ways I am not there to her...she is with her lover! Yeah, all sorts of thoughts in my mind at times like those.

Not sure at all when I felt that I was a cuckold, I mean of course it all depends upon how you look at it, Brandi feels since we are in this together she isn't really cheating and she isn't. If you want to go by the dictionary any of us that try swinging or poly or hotwife fun are cuckolds but while there are all sorts of cuckolds from unknowing ones to sissy ones...I feel like a cuckold and I feel that when my wife is with the right lover she is cuckolding me and she feels that when she is with the right lover, a man that she really likes and enjoys in and out of bed she is putting him first and is cuckolding me...and that power turns her on...the sex and friendship turn her on too and I think that the cuckolding is just a bit more pleasure for her, a bit of spicy seasoning to her being a hotwife.

More oops and off topic....

Okay, first the not so off topic stuff, Brandi will have Monday and Tuesday off I and expect even with all the accident related stuff to do she will try to get in touch with E and R. I doubt a meeting but she might start laying plans to meet and she says she wants me to keep trying to find a guy that is a closer fit to her needs in a lover.

Still grinding on with the accident stuff, the car is considered totaled but the body shop guy told me that it will not be crushed and someone will buy it and rebuild it and sell it. It will have a title that will show that it was totaled at some point. The major problem that the body shop sees is that there is about a six inch piece in the back, kind of between the rear bumper mounts and the underframe. That bit is designed to be destroyed in an accident, to sacrifice its self. It does that to save the underframe that is special steel that is more difficult to repair. It did part of the job but the underframe has a rip in it making it beyond reasonable repair cost. He thought it would be bought by a shop that wasn't busy that wanted to keep their workers doing something and in that case someone would get a good deal and a car repaired right. The other option is a shady shop that will not even bother to try to do a proper repair and in that case it would not at all be a good deal for someone...

Brandi did wear a low cut top when we went to get my eyes checked, no sign of accident damage but they want to look at them in a month (my eyes not my wife's tits!). Oh, the low cut top...I think I stared so much at my wife's breasts that I looked the fool, beautiful and I think other men enjoyed the view, not slutty but a nice view of very nice cleavage.

That had me thinking yesterday when I was selling hotdogs for a charity. While I enjoy a nice pair of breasts sans bra moving underneath a cute top that does not work for all times and all women. Second to that is a cute bra that is cute enough to show through the top and lets the breasts move some...things go down hill from that point.

Years ago Brandi had a few of those shelf bras that just cupped the bottom of her breasts leaving the top and the nipples exposed, a little support and showed a lot and her big nipples tended to show through a lot of clothing...might need to look for some of those if they still make them.

It has been fun in the past seeing Brandi shopping for clothing to please a lover including lingerie. She has bought things that she would not let me see until her lover saw her in them and she gone out on a date teasing me about what she was wearing under her dress and how her lover would see it before I would. A few times she has let a lover keep her thong or panties. A few lovers have given her lingerie. I find that hot and I enjoy seeing her wearing the gifts when she isn't seeing them, kind of like letting them have a little claim on her, her intimate parts even when they are not together.

The last thing...we live on about eight acres, a bit rural. Two nights ago our son heard noise and screamed (noises bother him late at night), the dog barked at the cats were upset, I grabed a gun and a light and headed out the door in my underwear (better be careful to not be wearing panties...a guy with a guy and a flashlight and wearing a t-shirt and panties isn't too scary!) but saw just a bit moving away. Yesterday leaving I saw a pet carrier on the edge of the property and picked it up on the way back home. Last night my wife was going down the hall to our daughter's room and saw a little long haired torty cat creeping down the hall. We have two torties but one is short haired and one seldom leaves the bathroom.

Our son's idiot friends dumped this little girl in our daughter's room. A real cute thing but we don't really need another car or another torty. An orange one or a Main Coon or Russian blue but another torty. We knew of one male torty and he was named Darcelle in honor of a tranvestite club in Portland. The new cat is very social and friendly but skinny and a real stickerball, she will need some cleaning up. Off to an airport breakfast. More later or tomorrow, a picture of the new cat?

Ooops...

On Monday we met a guy, let's call him "R" for now and Brandi seems interested in him. Has a legal background so that would make the third or fourth legal type she has played with, if they do play. Both said they were interested in taking things further so I guess it is a matter of time and place and if he (and she) are really interested enough to make it happen.

Our son is back from a trip to Japan and he had a great time but that means we will have to work around him.

On the day he was coming back I was on my way to the airport, a bit less than an hour away depending upon traffic. Traffic got slow and a bit stop and go and...I got rear-ended hard enough to push me into the car in front of me and the car behind me got hit and then the car behind her got hit...

The car is okay, kind of a jinxed car so that is a mixed blessing, the person behind admits that she hit me and the car will need some front end and rear end work and I got a ride in an ambulance.

In kind of a sick way it was funny. A person ran up and told me that 911 had been called so I didn't worry about that. I was unable to find my glasses so I was not seeing things very well. I had a lot of blood on me and I thought it was my nose, my nose tends to bleed easily, so I was holding a paper towel to it as a compress but the blood wasn't slowing down. So I try to find other spots bleeding and I had a deep cut on my forehead and everyone knows how head wounds bleed...

So there I am trying to call my wife who is at work, call my son to let him know I am late and then call my daughter in CA to see if she can get in touch with Brandi and hold the compress on my head and nose and dial the phone with blood covered hands! A person hands me some ice to help with the cut and finds my glasses in the floorboards, damaged but usable.

After I get everyone notified I get out of the car, by this time the EMT's have arrived and I am rushed back to them, they put a pressure bandage on my head, so again no glasses so I am back to not seeing.

Back board and ride to the hospital. Everything looks okay and I have another scar on my head, same Doctor did the work since I had cut my head about three months ago, nine staples that time and nine stitches this time. She said for cuts where this one is the stitches are better to reduce damage to the muscles. I told her that while I loved her that we have to quit meeting this way...she felt dinner and drinks would be much better for both of us!

The back is sore, I have a bad back anyway and that side of the face still feels numb. As we were leaving the e-room a woman was coming in and she looks at me in horror, every garment I had on had blood on it including my shoes. When I did get a look in a mirror I can see why the look of horror, a bloody mess! What a day.

So I'm trying to get back up to speed but I just don't feel sexy or all that sexual today but I will try to get back to it in the next day or two.